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The art of zipping two sleeping bags together

Whoa, now. Whether in summer or winter, lighting a fire under the full moon (and maybe even howling at it) and sharing a little body heat (to ward off hypothermia, of course) is as natural as it gets.

For those unfamiliar with the art of zipping sleeping bags together, we’ll start at the beginning.

When you’re out with someone special, plan a short day. A 10 hour death march through thick coastal brush, in the rain, after losing the trail, does not inspire fireside nestling. Instead, such marathons are a sure recipe for skipping dinner, sleeping in dirty clothes, and snoring with your mouths wide open. One sure sign you’ve been going too long: searching for a campsite in the darkness. Remember, shorter days mean longer nights.

Next, the tent. Your cocoon, your calm in the face of the storm, should strike that perfect balance between too small (if you can’t sit up, or pull on pants without demonstrating your yogic abilities, your tent is too small) and too large (if there’s an echo, or finding your partner requires a diligent search, then your tent is definitely too big).

Most important, if you haven’t set it up recently say within the past two years or if you harbour even the faintest sense of foreboding as poles tumble from the stuff sack like a confusion of pickup sticks, do not, under any circumstance, pour yourself and your friend a stiff drink before setting up this sanctuary. Nothing kills the mood like a ferocious squabble over which part goes where. Even worse is the sound of tearing nylon.

At the same time, take your time finding a flat spot. Sleeping pads are slipperier than cafeteria trays on hard packed snow: The slightest dip or roll, and toms you’ll slide off the crucial cushioning. It is also advisable, at this point, to remo toms ve any rocks and logs from toms under the floor of the tent. You’d think that would go without saying, but apparently not.

By now you’ve both worked up an appetite. Which is good, as nothing puts you in the mood like food. As long as it’s not a can of pork and beans, jammed into the smouldering remains of a fire, burnt on the bottom and tepid on top. This won’t spark even Survivorman’s flame. Skip the tiny soup packages and gas inducing dehydrated beans and bring out the good stuff. Pack appetizers, fresh fruit and veggies, and of course, something to wash it all down. Most critically, don’t forget dessert (hint: good chocolate).

Most important of all? The sleeping bags. Under no circumstance should you grab the musty camouflage sacks your brother took hunting last fall, when he and three buddies spent a storm bound week eating greasy steaks and guzzling tall boys. They may pass the sniff test at home, but once the heat of a human body is applied, overwhelming reminders of previous trips will float out.

How to get comfortable and close? You could spread one open bag beneath you, and toss the other on top, but this will inevitably lead to an alarming gasp when a minor shift in position sends frigid air tearing into warm skin. No, far better are “mating sleeping bags,” two warm cocoons that can be zipped together into a single mothership.

But don’t make the fatal assumption that any two bags will do. “You bring yours, I’ll bring mine it’ll be great!” Not so fast. Sleeping bags come in all shapes and sizes, with a multitude of zipper gauges. Nothing is as disheartening as a two hour zipper wrestling marathon in the dark as the mood evaporates. Test the mate ability before leaving home. (Also, watch you’re not matching two “rights” or two “lefts,” as one of you will spend the night feeling like a Benedictine monk with a heavy hood.)

If your hiking boots are wet, resist any temptation to bring them into the tent! Do not yank out the sodden liners and prop them beside your head to dry moments before planting a goodnight kiss. Nor should you peel your steaming socks off while commenting excitedly about the unexpected wrinkles, the ghost like coloration, or the throbbing blisters on your toes.

Dogs can be problematic. Yes, they love to get outside, and, yes, you probably should take them out more often. But the sound of two mouths meeting in the night is indistinguishable to the canine ear from the sound of food being stealthily consumed. The unexpected addition of a third, slobbering tongue can be unnerving at best. Depending whose mouth said tongue goes in, it may produce a spirited tantrum. Also, a cold nose unexpectedly p toms ressed into the nether regions is always a mood dampener. (Another argument for testing the compatibility of your sleeping bags before you leave home.)

Beware of flashlights. Your tent wall is essentially an enormous screen, projecting every move on the inside to any eager audience still at the campfire. You may be in the great outdoors, but keep the greatest show on Earth to yourselves. (Unless, you know, it’s that type of camping trip.)

With a little forethought and simple planning, there are endless opportunities for intimacy. And seriously, flickering firelight, shooting stars and a blanket of resounding silence it doesn’t get more romantic than that.

toms The Art of Tooting Your Own Ho

The Art of Tooting Your Own Horn Without Blowing It

It ain’t bragging if you done it. DIZZY DEAN

Myth 1:A JOB WELL DONESPEAKS FOR ITSELF

It’s not my father’s workplace anymore, or even the one many of your mothers may have entered in the 1970s or ’80s. The days of job security in exchange for loyalty and hard work are long gone. For most, this isn’t news. Yet many of us fail to recognize the value of self promotion in maneuvering today’s volatile and unpredictable workplace.

Given the constant changes mergers, management shifts, downsizing you simply must let people in the organization know who you are and what you are accomplishing. Otherwise you’ll be passed over for promotions, in succession planning, or when the company is determining the best performers during layoffs.

Even if you’re an ace at keeping your boss up to speed, remember, he or she might be gone tomorrow. You need to cover all your bases and stand out in the eyes of your boss’ boss and that boss’ boss and all the bosses right up to the big boss. Your mission is made even more challenging when you consider what the Information Age has wrought: people who are overwhelmed by the daily on slaught of e mails, voice mails, faxes, phone calls, and meetings upon meetings. They have little to no time or any real need to pay special attention to you.

Planting for the Future

As important as those on the inside of your company are for your survival, those on the outside are just as significant: recruiters, industry associates, personal friends and acquaintances, even your competitors. Even seemingly stable companies can collapse overnight. Just look at Enron and Arthur Andersen, among many others.

Good self promoters know this: They’re always planting seeds for the future. Karen, forty two, a division head for a major global food corporation, is a good example. At an informal gathering, when asked how long she had been in the business and what she did, instead of the typical “I’ve worked with my company for fifteen years and run its dairy division,” she responded:

Who ever thought I’d be in the food industry, especially after my mom forced me all those years to eat Cheez Whiz? [Everyone at the table erupted with laughter.] It must have been fate, but after I graduated with my MBA from Columbia, I got a call from a friend who told me about a few interesting openings. I began working for my company in 1985 in brand management, toms working my way up to marketing director.

Two years ago, one of the company’s other divisions was really in the hole and they gave me the assignment of turning it around. I didn’t really know where to start, so I began talking to people on the f loor. A lot of them had great ideas. From there, I got everyone involved and formed teams to pull in the various disciplines and put together a strategic vision. Today, I am the proud head of a dairy division that is number two in profitability worldwide.

Smart self promoters show up prepared. They value face time with others and are always ready with stories about themselves that break through the verbal clutter. They know that positive regard from others isn’t going to “just happen” on job interviews, at performance appraisals, during presentations, or at networking functions. And it’s unlikely to “just happen” by marching into the CEO’s office and asking for an appointment to discuss how wonderful you are. It’s not going to happen unless you make it happen, and the cr opportunities to self promote are going to come your way when you least expect them.

Myth 2:BRAGGING IS SOMETHING YOU DO DURINGPERFORMANCE REVIEWS

April 5, 2002: I am on a plane bound from New York to San Francisco and the thirty something guy sitting next to me just blew it: He missed a golden opportunity to sell himself and his company.

We had struck up a conversation and were happily chatting away about living in San Francisco when I asked him, “So what is it that you do?” “I’m a management consultant,” he replied. He didn’t continue, so I tried to engage him more by asking, “What’s your specialty in management consulting?” “Telecommunications,” he responded, followed again by dead silence. I took on the exercise of seeing if I could pull out some more information asking, “Who do you do it for?” He named one of the top five management consulting firms, then stopped cold. I was just about to ask another question when something inside me snapped. I thought to myself, I’m not asking a fourth question. I’ve done enough digging. Maybe he was tired, or reluctant to start tooting his own horn on an airplane, afraid that he might divulge sensitive information to prying ears, possibly a competitor’s. While sometimes that may be true, in this case we were already having a conversation. So the point is, the road traveled by a lackluster self promoter is paved with missed opportunities. You need to act like your best self even with strangers on airplanes and even when you don’t feel like it. Before you quickly slam shut the book claiming this is exactly the reason you didn’t go into sales, consider the following: Mr. Telecommunications didn’t know who I was.

I might have been a CTO of a company that could have used his consulting services. I might have been a recruiter who could come in handy one day when he’d gotten axed or one who was currently placing a specialist in the hottest new company in Silicon Valley. He didn’t know that, in fact, I am a consultant who works with Fortune 500 firms and could possibly introduce him to an executive of a company that could have become a major new account. He never found out.

I wasn’t asking him to reveal the location of the Holy Grail. I was simply asking that he tell me more about himself. If he had engaged me and talked about what he did and got me excited abo toms ut it, I might have been a good future contact. I might have handed him some business. At the very least, I would have remembered his story.

Myth 3:HUMILITY GETS YOU NOTICED

I’ve gone to spend a few days with my friend in the hinterlands of western Massachusetts and I find myself in an unlikely place: a tae kwon do class that her five year old son is enrolled in. The grand master, a Korean black belt, begins the class by asking the students to recite in unison the five themes by which to live. Lined up in military style precision, each child exhibiting impeccable posture, they shout:There it is. That last one. Don’t brag about yourself. Stating your value and accomplishments is risky because you might come across as pompous or make other people feel uncomfortable. It’s safer and much more appealing to be humble and understated. But will you get ahead?

Humility is a virtue with biblical and spiritual roots that is taught the world over. In some areas of the world, suc toms h as Asia, humility is prized much the way we in America prize our freedom of speech. Early on we are taught humility for good reason. We haven’t developed the social skills to talk about our accomplishments and ourselves gracefully. Instead, as children we blurt out, “My daddy has lots of money,” “I’m better than you because. . .” or in the case of my friend’s son, “I have more land than anyone,” which he proudly proclaimed one morning between mouthfuls of Cheerios as his mother cringed. Our parents and mentors know it’s important to squelch this behavior right from the get go or people aren’t going to like us. And they’re right.

But the problem is this: Very few of us ever learn how to reconcile the virtue of humility with the need to promote ourselves in the workplace. When education and training do focus on selling ourselves, we’re taught to pay the greatest care and attention to our wardrobe, our toms hair, our hygiene, our table manners, and our r Get those things right, it’s a slam dunk! There’s very little instruction on selling ourselves with ease and sincerity. Somehow we think if we personalize our message or get too excited, we are not being professional, when in fact this is exactly what makes us effective self promoters.

Wimping Out

The tug of war between showing humility and showcasing our accomplishments is played out daily across working America, even in the brashest of industries. Recently, while conducting a workshop at a major Wall Street investment bank, I asked a group of young men and women to update me on any successes they had experienced since we’d last met when we worked on crafting more compelling sales pitches.

From the back of the room, I overheard one guy encouraging Patty, a twenty six year old, perfectly coiffed junior banker to share her success story. Even though she had just landed a $10 million account, Patty seemed reluctant. With prodding from the whole group, she finally stood up. With her eyes directed toward the floor, her shoulders shaped like an orangutan’s, and in a whispery voice that barely rose above the white noise of the conference room, she said:

Oh, well, it’s really nothing. It was a team effort. There was this guy who I had read about in the paper, so I wrote him and later called his assistant, who said he wanted to meet with me. I went in and told him about the services of the bank and what we could do for him. He said it sounded interesting and asked where do we go from here? And I said, well, I’ll bring the portfolio manager and my senior banker with me and we’ll make an appointment. So we went back in two weeks. I led off the meeting, but the senior person did most of the talking, and we got a call yesterday and he’s giving us ten million dollars. And then she sat down.

I asked the group for some feedback. The fellow who had initially urged her on was flabbergasted. “Patty, what was that? You heard about this guy, you called him up, you met with him, and he gave you ten million dollars! You told it as if you had nothing to do with it. Quite frankly, you sounded like a wimp.”

toms The art of the plastic bag

The art of the plastic bag

Subway Animals Come to toms Life via RubenMiller

Via Reuben Miller, here a story from the Wooster Collective about anartist who makes animal figures out of discarded plastic bags. Tied to the ventilation grates above the subway lines, the figures jump up and spring to life whenever the subway rushes by.

A simple and creative way to deal with a . What to do with all those us toms ed plastic bags? The ugly truth about our plastic bag addiction is thatthe world rate is now estimated at well over 500,000,000,000 (that 500 billion) plastic bags annually, or almost 1 million per minute. goes through 100 billion plastic shopping bags annually. An estimated 12 million barrels of oil is required to make that many plastic bags.

rates for plastic bags are extremely low. Only 1 to 3% of plastic bags end up getting recycled.

Recycled plastic bag chicken from Wow! Imports

Wow! Imports offersone possiblesolution. Some evenhave logos from Fanta and Coca Cola.

Mark Jenkins How to Make a Plastic Bag Eating Giraffe

Artist Mark Jenkins takes a di toms fferent approach. Jenkins advocatesmaking tape giraffes to eat the plastic bags.

Argentinean designer and artist Marina Gryciuk uses techniques such as crochet and embroidery to reuse bags, cassette plastic tapes and old cloths. These cushions are knitted from recycled plastic grocery bags.

I am so moved toms by people who are dedicated to using the arts as a way of communicating such serious issues as our plastic consumption. I am also an artist who focuses on similar issues such as plastics in our oceans, and how plastics are integrating into our DNA and causing major diseases in many people. To view videos of the plastic island phenomena in the ocean go to.